California ? The Southern California woman who gave birth to octuplets apologized in a video posted Saturday to the father of all 14 of her children and promised that she would never reveal his identity.

“I’m sorry for all this mess, and I hope he isn’t scared it’ll come out because it won’t,” Nadya Suleman said in the RadarOnline.com video. “As far as I’m concerned, I’ll never disclose who he is.”

Suleman said the man is a foreign-born California resident in his 30s, but did not disclose his current address.

He was a friend who would make a good father, Suleman said, adding that their 7-year-old son Elijah resembled him.

Meanwhile, two more of Nadya Suleman’s babies, Maliyah and Nariyah, were sent home Saturday.

Kaiser Permanente Bellflower Medical Center officials said the two girls, each weighing about 5 pounds 2 ounces, were discharged privately at Suleman’s request.