This week’s birthdays: Venus conjunct with Pluto brings awareness to the ways time transforms relationships. Feelings change. Every so often it’s important to take inventory on the state of the union. Whether it’s a friendship, family connection or romance, it’s important to assess the relationship’s qualities and confirm its place in your life.

Aries

March 21-April 19

Resist getting so caught up in your own needs or nervousness that you are unable to observe what is going on. When your mind is quiet, your perceptions will lead you to the answers you seek.

Taurus

April 20-May 20

You’ll be meeting with people you know little about. Your curiosity will open a door — an interesting opportunity awaits you. If you’re going out, plan to arrive at your destination early so that you can get the lay of the land.

Gemini

May 21 – June 21

Just because you’re doing things at home with familiar people doesn’t mean you pull back your energy. You give your full attention and the best of your effort. You’ll raise the bar for everyone else.

Cancer

June 22-July 22

There’s a person whose attitude and decisions have shaped your life in many ways, good and bad. You’ll have compassion for this person, focusing on the positive aspects of the relationship and leaving the rest behind.

Leo

July 23 – August 22

Inner conflict zaps your energy. Resolve the turmoil in your mind and you will have abundant reserves to call on. Then you’ll return to your usual vivacious self.

Virgo

August 23-September 22

An acute restlessness moves you onto the fast track to adventure. You don’t have to suppress it, even if you can’t leave town at the moment. Try doing something you wouldn’t normally do to shake up the routine.

Libra

September 23 – October 23

A firm handshake sets the tone for every new meeting, friendship or opportunity. Helen Keller once said about a friend, “I can feel the twinkle of his eye in his handshake.” Be bold today, for opportunity beckons.

Scorpio

October 24 – November 21

There will be a displacement of the order you so enjoy. You’ll handle this beautifully. It’s really an opportunity to let go for a second and let the wind carry you.

Sagittarius

November 22 – December 21

You won’t take your blessings for granted. It helps that you’ll be constantly reminded by envious friends exactly how lucky you are. Life has smiled on you, and you’ll share that smile with as many people as possible.

Capricorn

December 22 – January 19

You’re no quitter, but you’ll be feeling the pressure. How you deal with it is the deciding factor that separates the winners from the “almosts.” And you are definitely a winner.

Aquarius

January 20 – February 18

A friend’s tendency to turn every conversation toward him or herself gets tedious. It’s not worth a confrontation, though. People are the way they are. Write in a journal instead of trying to relate when you cannot.way.

Pisces

February 19 – March 20

Luxury is an attitude, not a price tag. And just because a dish has many rich ingredients doesn’t mean it’s tasty. Treat yourself to a reward that has nothing to do with eating or spending.