Despite advances, sexism alive and well
Boston ? So we gather once more to pay homage to our foremothers by celebrating Aug. 26, the anniversary of the passage of suffrage. What a year it’s been since we last met. We’ve seen the first woman speaker of the House, the first woman president of Harvard University, and who can forget Bill Clinton, striving to become the first First Laddie?
Nevertheless, we continue our time-honored tradition, celebrating this day by announcing the cherished Equal Rites Awards to those who have labored over the last 12 months to set back the cause of women. As always, our one-woman committee worked hard to sift through all the candidates. Thus, without further ado, the envelopes please:
We begin by looking to Japan where the Abe government wins the Knights in (Tarnished) Armor Prize. There, the prime minister refused to apologize for the Japanese army’s use of “comfort women” as sexual slaves in World War II. That was after his health minister called women “baby-making machines.” And finally, the bodyguard for his gender equality minister was arrested for molesting a college student on a train. We send the land of the rising sun a sunset clause.
What can we give the winner of this year’s International Ayatollah Award? Our man is Ezzat Attiya, the creative Egyptian cleric who issued a fatwa saying that there was one way around the religious taboo against unmarried men and women working together. Women can breast-feed their male co-workers and legally become family. We would offer Attiya a special breast pump to accompany his fatwa, but we don’t want him to milk the idea.
Ah, but in some pockets of the Middle East, there is progress toward gender equality. Take Iran, winner of our Dubious Equality Award. Why, just last month a man was stoned to death for adultery. We send the judges there an engraved citation for equal brutality.
Unfortunately, we must return home for the Patriarch of the Year Prize. It goes with disappointment to Justice Anthony Kennedy, whose opinion restricting abortions rested on the retro notion that women needed to be protected from “regret,” “grief” and “sorrow,” even if it meant protecting them from their rights. We send the paternalistic justice a hook to bring him back to the 21st century.
So many judges, so few blindfolds. The Blind Justice Award is winging its way to Carson City (Nev.) District Judge Bill Maddox. While sentencing a man on kiddie porn charges, he opined: “It’s my understanding that most men are sexually attracted to young women. … I mean women from the time they’re 1 all the way up until they’re 100.” That blindfold should be placed carefully over his mouth.
Do you miss Tammy Wynette? Well, the Stand By Your Man Prize goes (temporarily) to Wendy Vitter, wife of family values’ Sen. David Vitter who admitted to a “very serious sin in my past” after his name was found in the D.C. Madam’s black book. In a 2000 interview, Ms. Vitter said, “I’m a lot more like Lorena Bobbitt than Hillary (Clinton). If he does something like that, I’m walking away with one thing and it’s not alimony, trust me.” Stay tuned.
Sex, crime and politics? Our Fashion Victim-izer Award goes to The Washington Post’s Robin Givhan for looking deeply into Hillary Clinton’s V-neck shirt and finding cleavage – EEEK! – which she labeled a “teasing display” and a “provocation.” For fashionbabbling without a license, we send her a chic uniform: Paris Hilton’s orange jail jumpsuit.
The true fashion statement of the year may be astronaut Lisa Nowak’s diapers. Nowak wins the Backwards Trailblazer Prize for that cross-country drive in pursuit of her rival. Will Nowak go down in history as astronaut or love slave? That Depends.
Now for the Desperate (To Get) Housewives Prize. This goes to the British researchers who report that housework reduces the risk of breast cancer. For urging women to scrub their way to better health, we offer them the dustbin of history.
Doctors, doctors, everywhere. Our Male-Practice Award goes to the former surgeon general, Richard Carmona, who belatedly confessed to toeing the White House line on abstinence-only education while knowing it was bunk. We give him a Post-it for his new life: Just Say No.
Let us not forget the Media Ms.-Adventure Prize. Fox television wins for “Anchorwoman,” the reality show featuring a bikini model and former WWE star reporting on a Texas TV station. Remember when Dan Rather said CBS was “tarting” up the news? We send the folks at Fox a nice, homemade tart.
More media? Our Post-Feminist Prize goes to Money magazine for its financial advice on how to close the pay gap: Marry rich. Money offered an investment manual on how to be the wife – first, second or trophy – of a gazillionaire. They say “wear small diamond earrings.” We say watch out for the prenup.
If you cannot marry money, send it up in smoke? The Marketing Ms.-Adventures goes to the ever-deserving R.J. Reynolds. This time, it is selling Camel No. 9, a cigarette with the aura of Chanel in a black package trimmed in fuchsia or teal. Our prize is an elegant coffin nail, colored pink.
Finally, we rest our hopes in the next generation. Sort of. The Our Bodies/Our Daughters Award goes to Mattel. The folks who brought you Barbie are collaborating on a new line of makeup: for 6- to 9-year-olds. For this we award them and all their ilk a special cosmetic for the next year: egg on their face.