New York ? If the tape from WGBH had come in a plain brown wrapper, I wouldn’t have been surprised. The fuss over this episode of “Postcards From Buster” — you know, with the lesbian mothers — had me nervous it might be a junior version of “The L Word.”

You must have heard. Last month U.S. Education Secretary Margaret Spellings upbraided PBS for spending tax dollars to make the episode, titled “Sugartime!” Then PBS, while denying it was caving to her pressure, displayed all the signs of caving with the announcement that it wouldn’t distribute “Sugartime!” to its 349 stations.

But thanks to series producer WGBH (which is providing the episode to any PBS stations that want to air it) I had scored a copy. I popped it in my VCR, pulled down the shades and took a peek.

Go figure! This episode is pretty typical of “Postcards from Buster,” a gentle, informative series about a camcorder-toting cartoon bunny who explores different cultures and communities, then reports back to his friends at home (as well as to his 4-to-8-year-old audience) through live-action video “postcards” showing the people he meets. The show airs 3:30 p.m. daily on KTWU and KCPT, though both stations have decided not to air the episode in question.

For “Sugartime!” (which refers not to sex, gay or straight, but to maple sugaring), Buster went to Vermont. There he visited a group of cute kids who ride bikes, jump in the hay, make chocolate chip cookies, cozy up to a bonfire, and show him how syrup begins as sap from maple trees.

As usual, this episode, filmed last March, centers on youngsters. But glimpsed as well are the parents, two couples who seem altogether unremarkable. Except they’re all women.

This detail scarcely escapes Buster’s notice. When one little girl refers to her mother and stepmother, Buster remarks, “That’s a lot of moms!”

Nothing more on the subject is said or done, however. And no one breathes the L Word.

‘Brainwashing of children’

But by daring to include two of the nation’s 168,000 gay-parented households (joining Pentecostal Christians, Muslims, Mormons and Hmong among those represented on the series) “Buster” was busted.

“Congress’ and the department’s purpose in funding this programming certainly was not to introduce this kind of subject matter to children,” Spellings wrote PBS head Pat Mitchell. (The Department of Education anteed up $5 million, two-thirds of the budget for the series’ 40 episodes.) “Many parents would not want their young children exposed to the lifestyles portrayed in this episode.”

Focus on the Family founder James Dobson agrees.

“At its heart, the issue before us is the ‘sexual reorientation’ and brainwashing of children by homosexual advocacy groups,” Dobson wrote on his Web site.

Of course, no child watching this episode is any more likely to be brainwashed into becoming gay than into copying Buster and growing rabbit ears.

The danger, such as it is, lies elsewhere. The episode’s two couples — Karen and Gillian, and their friends Tracy and Gina — come across as perilously likable people and loving parents. They’re awfully hard to distinguish from acceptable folks. It might be tricky, then, to convince a child who’s “exposed to the lifestyles portrayed in this episode” that these women should be demonized for being who they are. As usual, information is a threat to blind prejudice.

Local reaction

Bill Reed, president and CEO of KCPT, said the station would offer a special viewing for those who insisted on seeing the program.

“In their decision, PBS stated that there should be unique sensitivities in the area of children’s programming and the introduction and discussion of this issue should begin with parents at a time of their choosing,” he said in a written statement. “Only parents know when their children are old enough to understand that all family structures are not the same and why, and KCPT agrees with that decision.

“However, at KCPT we are dedicated to addressing controversial issues in our ‘primetime schedule,’ and (if viewers desire), we will provide an opportunity for experts on both sides to weigh in on this issue during ‘Kansas City Week in Review.’ We believe this is an appropriate primetime forum for this important discussion.”

‘Sensitive’ content

Donald Wildmon, head of the American Family Assn., is sounding the same alarm. Writing on his Web site that “the homosexual community has long used PBS … to promote their agenda,” he hails Spellings “for her bold stand.”

But what, to some, seems a bold stand is, to others, just pandering to a strident pressure group. Consider PBS’ own excuse for yanking the episode: It was deemed “sensitive in today’s political climate,” a spokeswoman was quoted as saying.

One of the moms, Tracy Harris, sees herself as a longtime PBS viewer done wrong. “I had a lot of faith in them to do the right thing and to give a voice to people who I feel are underrepresented in the media,” she says, adding, “As a teacher and as a parent and as a taxpayer, I feel betrayed by Secretary Spellings.”

Says Gina D’Ambrosio, a social worker partnered with Harris for nine years, the busting of “Buster” has turned “a beautiful series about life in America into what feels like an issue of invalidation and fear and censorship.”

Both women praise Boston’s WGBH, which, in the wake of PBS’ defection, is making “Sugartime!” available to PBS stations. So far, 42 have stepped up, with airings that began last week and will stretch into March.

These pockets of resistance have proved heartening to the kids in the episode. Understandably, they were crushed on learning that, among everyone visited by “Postcards from Buster,” they were singled out by a federal official as unfit for the nation to see. What a cruel lesson from the country’s education czar and those who support her: Out of sight, out of mind.

— Journal-World arts editor Mindie Paget contributed to this report.