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What do you think makes a good dad or father figure?

Asked at Dillons, 4701 W. Sixth St. on December 26, 2011

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“Somebody who’s selfless — willing to put children first. And someone who’s not just looking out for now but also for their children’s long-term well-being.”

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“It takes a lot to be a good dad. The main thing is just to be there, and to be a teacher and a supporter.”

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“A good dad is loving but also consistent. And a good follower and listener to God and somebody who brings that to his family.”

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“A dad who spends quality time with children and somebody who accepts them for who they are — someone loving and caring.”


labmonkey 6 years, 5 months ago

Someone who is strong enough to provide their children with a sense of direction and teaches them to be self-sufficient. Accepting a child for who they are is great until they are still living at home at the age of 25. Also someone who sets a good example by backing up the talk with actions (someone who sets a good example by his actions).

Loki 6 years, 5 months ago

Someone who passes down the great art of a successful dutch oven...

Bill Lee 6 years, 5 months ago

I wish I knew. I loved my dad, but he wasn't perfect. I love my children, but I feel I've been less than they deserve.

Maddy Griffin 6 years, 5 months ago

Someone who teaches responsibility, patience,self-sufficiency and unconditional love by their actions and gives them the freedom to spread their wings.A role model with a good work ethic.

Bunny_Hotcakes 6 years, 5 months ago

Regular requests for an apple, a knife, and a napkin, right? ;)

1029 6 years, 5 months ago

One that pushes his children to become champions. Wakes them up at 4am for batting practice in the backyard, pulls them out of school early on Friday afternoons to hit the weight room, makes them keep their baseball glove on at the dinner table, reads old baseball statistics to them at night instead of regular bedtime stories, etc.

fan4kufootball 6 years, 5 months ago

Being a loyal and loving husband to his wife is a very good start.

bearded_gnome 6 years, 5 months ago


careful thar Autie, yer startin' to sound republican, jes a lil.

pace 6 years, 5 months ago

Watch Dads walk in the parking lots with small children. They are safer if he herds them rather than leads. It says a lot. He watches the kids and is ready to pull them back from danger. There are many ways to be a good dad, but mostly be there, time. I had a great Dad and he treated us all different. He encouraged my sister in sports, me in literature, he expected us to do our chores, wasn't stupid about how kids could make poor choices. He had a demanding job but he would drag us around with him on his errands. He had time, interest, patience, understanding. I was more concerned with getting in trouble with him than I was being cool with my friends. No Dad I would not jump off a bridge if my friends suggested it. He told very corny jokes. He had faults but I sat here now wishing he could tell his stupid joke about the bait shop, which was so embarrassing. I just asked one of the best dads I know, what did he do best as a Dad. He said paying attention, and changing the diaper occasionally, even if it gave him the heebie jeebies and was awful.

bearded_gnome 6 years, 5 months ago


I've tried at least three times to post a reply to My_life's post, and it doesn't come up here!!!

comment very simple: +++

beatrice 6 years, 5 months ago

According to Maury Povich, it all starts with a conclusive DNA test.

labmonkey 6 years, 5 months ago

I forgot who it was who said that if you have two children and one grows up to win the Nobel Prize/cure cancer/etc..., and the other gets robbed by a hooker, you are still a failure as a parent.

bearded_gnome 6 years, 5 months ago

answer to the question: time time ... time ... time ... time!

child learns his or her opinion of God from the father most of all. a girl age 9 and up learns how to judge men, most of all her future husband, from experience with her dad.

dads do protect.

dad must love his wife, mom, and do it consistently, in a way that the kids can know and trust.

I have my dad's pipe stand with six of his pipes in it. he died when I was sixteen years old.
I am an idealist because of my father. I care about the good of my community and fellow man because of my father. my sense of humor is about straight from him (so blame dad!) we backpacked several times 50miles across the Sierras, Dad taught me a lot about camping and the outdoors.
my dad had a beard, I learned it from him.

I learned a lot from Dad.

because he was there and I knew he cared for me.

he spanked me too, most often with a rolled up newspaper. I also hated to make him mad or disappoint him.

my Dad believed in Christ. when he died, I was in the inevitable adolescent rebelion. I came to faith in Christ when I was 25 and already had a B.S..

I love my Dad, I miss him every day. I look forward to seeing him in heaven.

Brenda Bohannan 6 years, 5 months ago

I think that a good dad is someone that is always there for his children just not at conception. Conception does not make you a dad. It is how involved you are in the child's life. Being there for them when they are sick, when they are hurt, need your advice, praising them when they do good things, helping them pick up the pieces. Giving advise and watching them make mistakes. That is what a good dad is!!

jayhawklawrence 6 years, 5 months ago

I have always thought of my children as divine creatures with God as their real Parent. I am just the mediator and trying imperfectly to fill the shoes of the Man (or Woman).

I believe that creating an atmosphere in your home and in your relationships where it is easy to imagine the divine and ponder the highest morals, ethics and ideals is very important.

If a parent understands the enormity of the job they have been given, how can they not want to sacrifice everything for the sake of a child. Because none of us is good enough and our children will remind us of this fact from time to time, we need the help of a higher power.

It helps to learn to pray often when raising children and to realize that they are also raising you.

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