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What do you wish you had been taught as a young child?
Asked at Massachusetts Street on October 3, 2007
“I wish I had learned a second language earlier. Just because it’s supposed to be easier when you’re younger, and I had a pretty hard time with it when I got older.”
“I think I would have liked to learn how to draw. In my generation, they just kind of told us to be creative, but never really taught us any techniques.”
“A foreign language would have been nice to learn at a young age. They say it’s easier when you’re young. Now I try, but I think I’m too old to learn anything.”
“I wish I would have been taught that what other people say doesn’t matter and that you have to make yourself happy.”
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blue73harley (anonymous) says…
How to run a lumber mill?
RETICENT_IRREVERENT (Ronaldo Ignacio) says…
taught? I was taught enough...
I would rather learn than be taught.
moveforward (anonymous) says…
I wish that I had grown up more multicultural and learned through travel and other languages.
jonas (anonymous) says…
Can't think of anything. My problems aren't because of a lack of childhood education.
inmate (anonymous) says…
That Spotted Owls were on the endangered list and their habitat in the old growth forests is protected by the government.
hitme (anonymous) says…
The white zone is for loading and unloading only; there is no parking in the white zone
canyon_wren (anonymous) says…
I wish I had been taught to be kinder to other people. I had a great childhood with lots of encouragement and grew up feeling like I could do whatever I set out to do, but there was never a real emphasis upon kindness and compassion that I see being taught and lived, in (unfortunately) a very few families. That is something that a person can learn as he or she grows older but how nice it would be to have that as an important part of one's home life.
tangential_reasoners_anonymous (anonymous) says…
Never, never to talk to strangers (especially if I have to type to do so).
acg (anonymous) says…
A second language, then maybe I would've retained more of it than I did in school. To play an instrument. To let the stupid things that morons say roll off my back so that whenever an idiot makes an idiotic comment around me, I'm not automatically hit with the desire to kick their a** up over their shoulder blades. To rebuild a car engine and transmission. I always wanted to learn to sew, too.
Gootsie (anonymous) says…
Love it hitme!!!
That I was OK if everyone didn't like me.
i_have_only_valid_opinions (anonymous) says…
I don't know as a young child what I would have wanted to know more, but if I could go back in time and do junior high and high school again knowing what I know now, whoa....................
mom_of_three (anonymous) says…
I wish I would have learned a foreign language when I was young and how to cook.
snap_pop_no_crackle (anonymous) says…
How to write queries with inner selects in SQL. Of course, SQL didn't exist when I was a young child. If you were lucky, you had a stick and a rock.
Ceallach (anonymous) says…
RI beat me to it! I wouldn't change what I was taught, that was more than comprehensive (I've always thought my mother had a secret desire to be a teacher), but rather what I didn't learn until I found out the hard way.
snap, have you read MySQL & mSQL? First time I opened that book I thought it would have been better titled "You are SOL!" :):)
snap_pop_no_crackle (anonymous) says…
LOL!
toefungus (anonymous) says…
Could you repeat the question? I wasn't paying attention.
True_To_KU (anonymous) says…
As a child you're always taught to analyze everything "Now what do you think about that junior?", I wish I was taught to not analyze everything so darn much! Life would be so much better. Because of the way I was taught I tend to treat other people like they are stupid, and that makes me feel really bad when I think about it.
Ceallach (anonymous) says…
True_to, that sounds like my mother. Then, when I was old enough to actually have opinions on things she changed her tune. It became, "Ceal, it is not polite to give your opinion on every single thing you hear." Lo these many years later I often have LJW opinion-givers telling me the same thing :P
The_Original_Bob (anonymous) says…
Grifting.
gogoplata (anonymous) says…
jiu jitsu
acg (anonymous) says…
TOB I can help you out with that. lol! :)
The_Original_Bob (anonymous) says…
ACG -
Will Dotsline come and berate me? If so, please teach. Wow, what a crabass, huh?
Pywacket (anonymous) says…
I wish I had learned to work the saxophone
or the drums
or the harmonica.
I have an old friend who blows the most incredible blues on the harmonica. He carries a case of them around with him, so he'll have whatever keys he needs. He's been in bands over the years, playing weddings & at festivals, but mostly he likes to jam around a campfire with guitarist friends. Many good times..
I would love to have that familiarity and ease with the harp but just can't seem to self teach the way he did. He was a virtuoso at about 16, so maybe you need to start real young, when the drive and purpose haven't been beaten out of you by life. ;-)
Who knows--maybe I will buy that sax and take lessons yet.
dminear60 (anonymous) says…
What goes around comes around
trinity (anonymous) says…
to let go...my dear mama had a knack for holding on to past hurts&grudges like you wouldn't believe! serves me well in *some* cases, but for the most part-nah.
joie de vivre! :) am very glad i learned that, long long ago.
snap_pop_no_crackle (anonymous) says…
Never criticize a man until you've walked a mile in his shoes, then you'll be a mile away and you'll have his shoes.
(Stephen Wright, I think)
concernedparent (anonymous) says…
I wish when I was younger and my grandma told me to get out of the kitchen I would have said no. I should have been right there next to her paying attention to how she made all of that delicious food that we ate every sunday afternoon.
kneejerkreaction (anonymous) says…
My 15th foreign language.
sgtwolverine (anonymous) says…
Nunchuck skills, and computer hacking skills.
I'm not sure what I think of Laura's response; it seems like an overreaction to caring a little too much about what other people say. I think it's a bit extreme to say that what other people say simply doesn't matter; at that point, if I knew her, I would wonder why I bother to say anything at all to her, because it doesn't matter to her what I say.
So what I'm saying is that I don't think she actually completely means what she's saying; her answer is a sentiment sort of on par with "You can be anything you want to be."
acg (anonymous) says…
Crabass is a nice way to put it. :)
Py, my sister, who's going to be 40 this year, taught herself how to play the sax, and now she can wail on it. She was a flute/picolo player all thru school but hadn't touched an instrument in years. It only took about 8 months of working on it for an hour or two daily but she's gotten really good, and if that ditzy b can do, certainly you can.
Nunchuck? Is that how it's really spelled? I've been calling them numbchucks for years because I thought that had you been smacked in the head with them a time or two you would be all numb. I'm going to wikipedia that, now.
justfornow (anonymous) says…
I wish I had been taught to disregard our laws, like many on this forum.
ms_canada (anonymous) says…
Always been sorry that I never learned to play the piano. I would just love to be able to make beautiful music. Especially since I can't sing worth a darn.
Also wish my mom had taught me self-discipline. I think you can learn that by being more disciplined by a parent when very young. I think so, hmmm?
Pywacket (anonymous) says…
Trinity--did we come from the same mother?! I bet that's a common trait, though.
ACG~ Thanks for the encouragement. If your sister reads your comments, though, she might make you wail!
Ms C~ The piano is probably the easiest instrument to learn. And you don't have to clean spit out of it after you play. (Well.. unless you get really, really enthusiastic about your playing.) Pick up an old upright--they can usually be found pretty cheap--and take a few lessons. I'd say buy an electronic keyboard, but they're just not the same, of course. Might be useful for learning fingering, though.
I wish I had learned the trick to making a pile of money and retiring at 40. It's the pits being beautiful instead of rich, eh, fellow gorgeous dolls? (That would be Sue, Trinity, Ms C, Gootsie, Ceal, etc..)
acg (anonymous) says…
Ms C~ The piano is probably the easiest instrument to learn. And you don't have to clean spit out of it after you play. (Well.. unless you get really, really enthusiastic about your playing.)--Pywacket
Okay, I laughed so hard at that I think a little pee came out.
sunflower_sue (anonymous) says…
Py, ;o)
Like so many others, playing an instrument (piano or guitar) and a second language would have been nice to learn at a young age. My bro bought himself a guitar for his 40th and taught himself to play. Then again, he has a background in music and I think that that helps. (Not to belittle his accomplishment.) I can't even read music.
mom_of_three (anonymous) says…
I played the saxophone since the 5th grade, and I am so grateful to my mom for allowing me to play. She made weekly/monthly payments on my sax for years until it was paid for. It is the funnest instrument to play.
But I wish I was taught at an early age that caffiene, even pop, is addictive....
Ceallach (anonymous) says…
Py, What can we say? When you're right, you're right :)
ms_c, you should definitely get a keyboard and take lessons. Little M is doing well in her lessons and you have more time than she does :) and my man-cub taught himself!!
I'm not sure how old Leo T was when he learned/wrote this, but it is something I wish I had learned when I was younger, "Everyone thinks of changing the world, but no one thinks of changing themselves."
GretchenJP (anonymous) says…
I was taught plenty as a child but not enough as an adult.
RomanNose (anonymous) says…
The Two-Headed Cobra Biker Gang Sleeper Hold
tangential_reasoners_anonymous (anonymous) says…
I wish that someone had warned me that extended participation in these readers' forums could lead to Carpal-Tourette's Syndrome.
coolmom (anonymous) says…
i would of liked to learn the normal things kids learn instead of the messed up family stuff and being a small lady i would have liked to learn taekwondo while still fast and flexible.
adriennerm (anonymous) says…
I wish someone would have taught me about the importance of credit. They should teach something regading this in the senior year. Once you turn 18 and apply for loan....boy do the credit card apps flood your mailbox.
I never knew anything about maintaining good credit..now I am paying the price. I will teach my daughter.