Faith Forum: Why do you think so many young people are more comfortable now identifying as non-religious?

David Berkowitz, past president, Lawrence Jewish Community Congregation, 917 Highland Drive:

I was somewhat surprised when I was asked to answer the above question, considering I am 72 years old and far removed from being a young person. I think before we can answer this question, we need to define what “non-religious” means. Does it mean a non-belief in God or higher entity or is it seeking different ways to satisfy spiritual needs? We also should note that it is not an unusual phenomenon for there to be some drop out in religious identification and practices among the young. Particularly, in countries such as the United States where there is no force or societal pressure to join a church or other religious organization. Young people often attempt to break away from their parents and explore alternative beliefs and lifestyles.

Among the Jewish Community, of which I am a member, there seems to be a movement among young adults that is not necessarily non-religious, but more anti-established synagogues. I believe a similar situation exists among younger Christians as well. A synagogue or church is an established organization and it is sometimes difficult for a young person to break into a leadership role or even feel that they have any significant influence. Also, what may very well satisfy my needs spiritually at 72 may not necessarily be satisfying to young adults. Alternative means such as informal groups, studies, or even congregations that are run by and catered to young people have emerged. Jewish young adults have groups of this nature, called havurah, which is Hebrew for “fellowship”. There are many such groups, some large and some small, which pick and choose between different traditions and aspects of those traditions, or practices that the participants desire as well as instituting their own traditions.

When we say that young people are increasingly identifying themselves as “non-religious”, perhaps what we really mean is they are not religious in the traditional sense.

— Send email to David Berkowitz at bwlaw@sunflower.com.