Archive for Sunday, September 18, 2011

Military society subtlety changes as gay ban comes to an end

September 18, 2011


— Night-long celebrations will mark the final countdown to the historic end of the U.S. military’s ban on openly gay troops, and even more partying will take place once it is lifted Tuesday. But in many ways change is already here.

Countless subtle acts over the past months have been reshaping the military’s staunchly traditional society in preparation for the U.S. armed forces’ biggest policy shift in decades. Supporters of repeal compare it to the racial desegregation of troops more than 60 years ago.

For some gay service members, the fear of discovery and reprisals dissipated months ago when a federal court halted all investigations and discharge proceedings under “don’t ask, don’t tell,” while military leaders prepared the armed services for its end.

Several have come out to their peers and commanders.

A few have since placed photographs of their same-sex partners on their desks and attended military barbecues and softball games with their significant others. In San Diego, about 200 active-duty personnel — both gay and heterosexual — made up the nation’s first military contingency to participate in a Gay Pride march this summer, carrying banners identifying their branches of service. An Army soldier had tears, saying she was touched by the thousands cheering them on, after hiding her identity for so long.

“We’re Gay. Get Over it,” stated the cover page of the Marine Corps Times distributed to bases worldwide a week ahead of Tuesday’s repeal.

The headline offended some but for many troops it echoed their sentiment that repeal is a non-issue for a military that operates by following orders and is busy at war. That sentiment is backed by Pentagon officials who say they have found no evidence the repeal so far has disrupted forces or harmed unit cohesion as predicted by opponents.

Air Force Capt. Diane Cox, whose gay son served in the Navy, said she got into heated debates with service members vowing not to take showers and share rooms with gays before Congress voted to repeal the law, but after the military held sensitivity trainings to explain the new rules “everybody just shut up.”

Jokes are still told about gay people but the harsh remarks have stopped, she said.

“It’s a new Air Force. I’m really surprised how everything settled down as much as it has,” said the emergency room nurse at Travis Air Force base, near Fairfield in northern California. “Some of the best, most honorable people have had the military pin medals of honor on them for combat and then they’ve gotten kicked out over this. It’s shameful. I’m glad it’s done.”

Many no doubt will continue to keep their personal lives private. But gay service members say their jobs already feel easier. They no longer use code words or change pronouns in their conversations to protect their careers.


Liberty275 6 years, 9 months ago

"We’re Gay. Get Over it"

You’re gay. Get over it It's nobody's business except yours and your partner's.

beatrice 6 years, 9 months ago

Except for functions like military events, dinners, balls, etc... Partners aren't just people who only interact in the bedroom. Now, they can attend functions, military events, dinners, dances, etc..., and be with their partner.

beatrice 6 years, 9 months ago

Why? Do heterosexuals shoot weapons more accurately than gays? Was our security better off when we were kicking translators of Middle Eastern languages out of the military because they were gay? Are we a better nation when we discriminate?

The answer to all of these questions, of course, is no. Only way you can think otherwise is if you are afraid of gay people. And then, that is on you. Deal with it, because it isn't about what those who would discriminate want.

This is a great day for the military and our country.

KYOU 6 years, 9 months ago

Spoken like someone that has never been in the military. I was propositioned several times while in the military. Each time I politely said no thanks. It must have been because of the twinkle in my eyes. ha

If the military allowed prostitution as it does drinking under 21, they may have something there for those souls looking for a good time.

Cant_have_it_both_ways 6 years, 9 months ago

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Liberal_Theorist 6 years, 9 months ago

You may have something there. Aside from the reproductive incongruities, two people that find each other comfortable to live with, should not be ostracised for being their way.

just_another_bozo_on_this_bus 6 years, 9 months ago

"To me gay is a mental illness, justified by deviant acts."

That makes absolutely no sense. But I'm sure that's what God told you, so it doesn't need to make sense.

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