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Boy touched many lives in few years

April 29, 2009

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Blake McNish

Blake McNish

Blake McNish always had someone to play with during recess, even when the tumor in his brain returned and forced him to stay indoors.

“Kids argued about who got to stay inside and play with him,” said Pat Zimmerman, Blake’s fifth-grade teacher.

Zimmerman said students would defend Blake if anyone picked on him, and they played soccer with Blake and his red and white ball, knowing he might take it away a few minutes later.

“He taught the other kids tolerance, patience and love,” she said. “They were so protective of him.”

But the kids won’t play soccer with Blake anymore. His crooked smile, blond hair and glasses will forever be a memory to the kids and staff at Perry-Lecompton Elementary.

Blake died at Children’s Mercy Hospital on Friday from the complications of a malignant brain tumor. He was 11 years old.

“We miss him,” said Blake’s father, Tim. “But we know he went to a better place, where he doesn’t have to deal with any more surgeries.”

Blake was diagnosed with brain cancer when he was 15-months-old. The cancer went into remission when he was 3.

Blake enjoyed eight cancer-free years before the tumor returned last month.

In those eight years, Blake was able to leave a lasting impression on all he met.

Bill Leslie, 83, said even though he was just a neighbor, Blake always referred to him as his grandpa.

“He was a mighty nice little guy,” Leslie said.

At school, Blake’s seat is empty, but his peers haven’t let him go. Students from the elementary and middle schools are raising money to help the McNishes pay the medical bills.

Fifth-graders gave the $160 they raised in concessions; they’re having a bake sale today and Thursday, too. Fourth-graders are donating proceeds from their school store.

Lecompton middle schoolers are collecting change in jars. On the last day of practice, the middle school track team will run 1,000 laps for pledges donated in Blake’s name.

And at the funeral Saturday, a quilt made by more than 60 fifth-graders and elementary school staff will embrace the small casket.

Zimmerman said the children made the quilt so Blake could be wrapped in all their love forever.

“You don’t think of some child touching that many people,” she said. “But he did.”

Comments

lawthing 4 years, 11 months ago

It takes about one month to really get to know someone, about one minute to fall in love with someone, and a lifetime to forget.

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tjhoops69 4 years, 11 months ago

God bless this family, and I pray for peace for them. It sounds like this little fella touched alot of lives, and that speaks volumes for the parenting. May God be with you and your family during this time, and in the arms of the angels, he has found, comfort there.......

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bevy 4 years, 11 months ago

Tim and family, we are praying for you and yours. You have lost a fantastic little man, but God has gained a shining angel. You'll meet again, and Blake won't suffer any more. You should be proud of Blake and of the things he has taught all of our kids. I know that they will grow up to be more caring and compassionate because of knowing your son.

God be with your family.

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Confrontation 4 years, 11 months ago

He taught a lot of children and adults some very important life lessons. My thoughts are with his family and friends.

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crosstownbytch1 4 years, 11 months ago

RIP Blake, Tim, Amy, Brad, Jessica and Jordan I just want to let you guys know that you are in my thoughts and prays and that you are in all of your friends prays through this very difficult time. May god help you through this

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StirrrThePot 4 years, 11 months ago

God be with Blake and all those who knew and loved him.

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Music_Girl 4 years, 11 months ago

Condolences to the family and friends of little Blake. Sometimes God sends us angels to remind us how precious life really is.

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edjayhawk 4 years, 11 months ago

God will take good care of him. He knows a warrior when he sees one.

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blue73harley 4 years, 11 months ago

My condolences to family and friends.

This is from the obit in case anyone is interested in helping -

"The family suggests memorial contributions to the Blake McNish Fund to help defray medical costs, sent in care of the funeral home or Midwest Regional Credit Union, c/o Lisa Chamberlin, 1015 W. Sixth St., Lawrence, KS 66044."

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middlemgmt 4 years, 11 months ago

I struggle to understand the dealth of a child. I pray for this family to stay strong and my thoughts are with them during this awful time.

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