The July issue of Allure offers help for cultivating a sexy attitude. Here are a few highlights to help the next time you’re on the prowl:

¢ Maintain good eye contact, and don’t be afraid to throw in a wink or a sly grin.

¢ Be aware of the volume of your voice when at a party or in a group – speak only as loud as you need to for her to hear you.

¢ Surprise him. Bring up an unusual topic or tell him something shocking about yourself.