Archive for Thursday, February 15, 2007

Talk helps Jackson

KU junior, coach have heart-to-heart

February 15, 2007


— So distraught he didn't know if he'd be able to continue playing basketball, Darnell Jackson sought out a person he could trust for a heart-to-heart talk last Christmas season.

That would be his coach, Bill Self.

"I cried, and he hugged me," Jackson, Kansas University's junior forward from Oklahoma City, said. "He said God makes these things happen for a reason. Everything that happens is for a reason.

"Coach Self really helped me. I don't really have a male figure in my life. I really appreciate what he did for me," Jackson added after grabbing 11 rebounds and scoring four points in KU's 75-46 victory over Colorado on Wednesday at Coors Events Center.

What Self did was listen to Jackson talk about much heartache in his young life.

Darnell's mother was seriously injured and his grandmother died from injuries sustained in a car wreck in Las Vegas after his freshman year. Also, his uncle died, his grandfather died and his cousin and best friend were murdered - "killed by a semiautomatic," Jackson said - the past year.

"Ever since I got here, stuff has been falling in my lap, ups and downs," said Jackson, who also has battled a back injury that sometimes makes it difficult even to get out of bed.

"It eats you up inside. I was holding it all in until Christmas break when coach talked to me."

Self said he has been quite pleased with Jackson lately and indeed noticed the player has been competing with a freer mind since Christmas.

"We had a great meeting," Self said. "He was down over personal issues. He keeps things bottled up. Sometimes he needs to talk. I have great respect for Darnell and his family. He has been through so much. I really like the kid. I like the kid."

Jackson said he has made a concerted effort to play harder since the last Colorado game when Self called his big men "soft."

"Nobody likes to be called that word. I decided to try to get in position, rebound, bang, do what it takes to help us win," Jackson said.

Jackson says he has big goals for the rest of the season, notably helping KU win Big 12 and national titles. Self simply hopes Jackson is able to continue contributing in a big way despite all his hardships.

"I am proud of him," Self said. "He's gone through a lot more than I know I have gone through, and I've lived twice as long as he has. He's had heartache thrown his way. I don't know if I was his age I could cope with what has come his way."


lawrence_citizen 11 years, 3 months ago

I absolutely love to watch Darnell paly. He looks like he is really having fun. Especially when the opposing player starts getting frustrated, his smile gets even bigger. He is a true hero to keep going with all he has had to deal with in his personal life.

mom_of_three 11 years, 3 months ago

Darnell was playing well last night, as well as Sasha. As far as starting Darnell, I would rather him come off the bench with Darrell Arthur. As much I as respect Sasha's abilities, he can get the quick fouls and then let the others play. It worked last night.
Sasha had a great 2nd half.

Leprechaunking13 11 years, 3 months ago

Plumber you don't know what you are talking about evidently, Darnell started at the beginning of the season he plays much better off the bench. The thing is that this team has so many starting lineups that to tweak it every time one player steps up would be rediculous. Also Sasha has been playing for how long? 5 years? yeah not very long considering that Darnell has been playing 15 years longer than Sasha. OH and Sasha has 3 inches of height on Darnell to make Sasha a ......CENTER and Darnell a POWER FORWARD, so the person to replace Sasha would be Darrell not Darnell. OH and most of the time we don't foul anymore the other team but we are bigger, faster, stronger, more athletic and we over power teams so much the refs take it as a foul even if it isn't. This team will be a 2 seed and go deep into the tourney this year. Please don't everyone be like plumberscrack and sound disappointed after a nice huge win we're supposed to have.

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