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Fire victims ‘remain in our memories’
September 25, 2006
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Clutching tissues and one another, family and friends of Charles Glover Sr. and four of his grandchildren Sunday said their reluctant goodbyes.
"Words are inadequate at a time like this," said Randy Weseman, superintendent of Lawrence public schools. "They remain in our hearts. They remain in our memories."
Weseman was one of several community and religious leaders to express grief, sorrow and hope for the future during Sunday's memorial service at the Kansas Union Ballroom.
Glover Sr. died Sept. 17 in a house fire in East Lawrence along with grandchildren Nolan Vender, 13; DaVonte Brockman, 11; Mario Johnson, 2; and Mariyana Johnson, 13 months. The cause of the fire remains unknown.
The sole survivor of the fire, Glover's wife, Learlean, attended the service. She had been hospitalized after the fire.
The ballroom, which Kansas University Chancellor Robert Hemenway reserved for the service, quickly filled with friends and family from all over the country. The crowd of hundreds filled every seat and stood in rows three and four deep along the ballroom walls.
On the ballroom stage, a choir sang opening hymnals and continued with songs throughout the service. The five caskets - three full-size and two smaller - rested between the stage and family members who sat in the front row. The caskets were adorned with roses, photos and DeVonte's football.
Those who spoke at the service balanced saying goodbye to five members of the longtime Lawrence family with clinging to faith and hope to move forward.
"We came here to mourn the loss of Charles Glover, but also to recognize the coming home of him and his grandchildren into the hands of God," Hemenway said, opening the services.
Hemenway served as master of ceremonies at the request of the family, he said.
Glover was a groundskeeper at KU for more than 25 years, keeping tabs of the gardens and yard of Hemenway's campus home for a decade.
"Charles Glover was a friend of mine," Hemenway said. "We talked about family, the grandkids."
Elaine Winn, wife of the Rev. Paul Winn of Praise Temple Church of God in Christ, read statements from those who couldn't attend the service. Gov. Kathleen Sebelius sent her sympathies, telling the family members they were in her thoughts Sunday.
During the service, state Rep. Barbara Ballard told the family she'd be overwhelmed, her heart broken, if she ever experienced such a loss in her family.
"I don't think anyone can ever know how you feel," she said.
From the crowd, Lois Ann Brockman, the mother of three of the children, yelled, "Yes, ma'am."
But Ballard said those feelings of despair, so strong now, won't last forever.
"Let go of all that pain, that heartbreak," she said.
She chanted to the crowd, "Let go. Let God." The crowd chanted back.
After the services, family and friends were invited to say their final goodbyes to Glover Sr. and the children. One at a time, people began to cluster around Glover Sr.'s open casket, placing hands on his head, crying softly.
Brockman, who had said she only wanted to kiss her daddy goodbye, leaned down to her father and children one at a time.
Weak with emotion, she leaned on her father's casket while family and friends held her up.
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- Video: Lawrence Fire Chief Mark Bradford holds a press conference on September 18
- 6News video: East Lawrence fire claims two lives; three still missing
- Video: Sunday, Sept. 17, 2006, press conference
- Video: Neighbor Peter Lampert, an eye witness, describes the scene and the events
- Video: Lawrence Fire Marshal Rich Barr discusses the fire
- Video: Chancellor Robert Hemenway discusses Charles Glover
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25 September 2006
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Parrysmom (Anonymous) says…
My heart aches and goes out to all those affected by this devastating event. I can't imagine what it is like to lose even one child let alone all of your children. I just hope and pray I never have to experience something like that. May God help you all work through this terrible, terrible time. My prayers will be with you all. I wish there was something more I could do. God Bless
25 September 2006
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anotherpointofview (Anonymous) says…
My heart goes out to the family who have lost so much. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.
25 September 2006
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toughangel41 (Anonymous) says…
The “Tiny” caskets are the hardest to forget for some of us it takes longer
28 September 2006
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heidi_b (Anonymous) says…
I don't know the family, but my heart goes out to the Glovers.
I can't imagine what it would be like to have to go through this kind of tragic loss. I am thankful for family.
Blessings….h.b.