Self-esteem pointers can help students go back confident
The writers at www.teenhealth.org know a few things about feeling insecure — and going back to school can heighten those feelings, even when you have no reason not to feel great about yourself. Here are some tips to remind yourself why you’re terrific just as you are:
- Remember that self-esteem involves much more than liking your appearance. Because of rapid changes in growth and appearance, teens often fall into the trap of believing their entire self-esteem hinges on how they look. Don’t miss the inner beauty that’s more than skin deep in yourself and in others.
- Think about what you’re good at and what you enjoy, and build on those abilities. Take pride in new skills you develop and talents you have. Share what you can do with others.
- Exercise! You’ll relieve stress, and be healthier and happier.
- Try to stop thinking negative thoughts about yourself. When you catch yourself being too critical, counter it by saying something positive about yourself.
- Take pride in your opinions and ideas — and don’t be afraid to voice them.
- Each day, write down three things about yourself that make you happy.
- Set goals. Think about what you’d like to accomplish, then make a plan for how to do it. Stick with your plan and keep track of your progress. If you realize that you’re unhappy with something about yourself that you can change, then start today. If it’s something you can’t change (like your height), then start to work toward loving yourself the way you are.
- Beware the perfectionist! Are you expecting the impossible? It’s good to aim high, but your goals for yourself should be within reach.
- Make a contribution. Tutor a classmate who’s having trouble, help clean up your neighborhood, participate in a walk-a-thon for a good cause, the list goes on. Feeling like you’re making a difference can do wonders to improve self-esteem.
- Have fun — enjoy spending time with the people you care about and doing the things you love.

