In some ways, it’s the contrasts that make Christmas most meaningful.

Because of the generosity of Kansas businesses and individuals, more than 400 members of the Kansas Army National Guard are spending Christmas with their families back in Kansas. More than $146,000 was donated to bring home Guard members who might not have been able to afford the trip on their own. These visits are especially important for the unit, which has been training in Texas and is scheduled to deploy to Iraq next month.

But, by contrast, it’s important to remember all the Guard members and U.S. troops who already are in Iraq and will spend their Christmas far from home.

Dozens of local efforts have sought to make Christmas happier for those in need. Hundreds of families and individuals have received assistance with gifts and food, and a Christmas dinner at First United Methodist Church today is open to everyone at no charge. Even so, we know some people will spend this holiday alone, without gifts or a decent meal.

Many residents of Greensburg are spending their holiday in temporary housing, having lost their homes in the May 4 tornado that leveled the town. Their current living situation is far different than what they knew last year, but they no doubt are grateful for what they have and all the help they have received.

Christmas is a natural time to gather with and enjoy family and friends. Some of those gatherings, however, may be less than joyful this year. Consider those who are dealing with serious health issues or those who have lost a family member since last Christmas. At least a few families are dealing with sudden, tragic losses, perhaps from a weekend traffic accident or other mishap. Thinking of those people may make you appreciate those close to you a little more.

Christmas is supposed to be a time of great joy, and for many of us, it is exactly that. It is a time when we share our love through gifts and deeds and try to reach out to those who need some help.

Unfortunately, even in the season of caring, some needs – both physical and spiritual – go unmet. Remembering that fact may somehow help all of us who are able to celebrate the joy of the season a little more aware of and grateful for our good fortune.

Merry Christmas.